SADISM

writing about sadism seems weird...even to somebody like me...u always hear about these 'how to be happy' write ups..books..and self improvement articles.......but nobody ever might have written about being sad and 'how to be sad'......
perhaps this is because people are in general unhappy about everything surrounding them...right from job..to relationships...to politics...to country...to world in general.........and it is such a thing which is always there..need not be attained...
then why to run from this...Accept sadness.......and believe me u will happy...this is sadism...awestruck??? read on.......
Life goes on full circle ....there is a full circle about humans emotions too....imagine some super power leaves you at around quarter place.....and there are two options given to you....either go ahead around the 3 quarters to reach the zero position ....in pictorial terms....try to attain everything that is supposed to give happiness...try to get everything possible so that there is nothing left to be attained...and then u have a zero feeling...that is where you get the real pleasure..............exactly what all the 'how to be happy' books preach you
or there is a second way.....follow back and travel the 1 quarter u had ...and u still reaches the zero..don't you.........pictorially speaking.........loose every damn thing....if u r sad then so be it...stop worrying....expect more sadness....be rest with that......there is nothing worse than this that can happen....this is also the same zero feeling.....believe me u will be same happy.....point is this takes lot less time.....
There was one dialogue in the movie 'fight club'..'it is when u loose everything..that u r free to do anything' . Sounds like genuinely genius philosophy..doesn't it........This is the essence of Sadism....
Loose all hope.....and may u rest in peace always...AHEM